Introducing Solids: Baby-Led Weaning vs. Purees vs. Combo
(Week-by-week plans that actually work — no stress, no battles)
Your baby is 5–6 months, grabbing at your food, and you’re paralyzed by the BLW vs. purees debate.
Here’s the truth: there’s no “wrong” way — just the way your baby will actually eat.
Pick one, mix them, or switch halfway through.
Here’s exactly how parents did all three — with real schedules that worked.
When to Start (The Real Signs, Not Just Age)
- Sits with minimal support
- Good head control
- Interest in food (grabbing, watching you eat)
- Tongue-thrust reflex gone
Quick science: Starting solids at 5–6 months supports oral motor development and reduces choking risk long-term — whether purees or finger foods.
(Source: AAP 2022 Solid Foods Guidelines)
“We started purees at 5.5 months, switched to BLW at 7. Baby ate way more once we gave him control.”
— Mom in r/BabyLedWeaning
The 3 Methods That Actually Work
- Traditional Purees (easiest for nervous parents) Week 1–2: single-ingredient purees once a day (oatmeal, avocado, sweet potato) Week 3+: twice a day + thicker textures Tools: silicone spoons + suction bowls
- Baby-Led Weaning (skip spoons entirely) Start with soft finger foods: steamed carrot sticks, avocado wedges, banana with skin Always size of adult pinky or bigger grip Tools: high chair with footrest + silicone bib
- Combo (what most parents end up doing) Purees for iron-fortified cereal + finger foods for practice “We did purees at breakfast, BLW at dinner. Best of both worlds.”
Gear That Made a Difference for Parents
- ezpz Mini Mat “Suction plate that never flips. Saved our floors.”
- NumNum GOOtensils (pre-spoons) “Perfect bridge between purees and self-feeding.”
- Bumkins silicone bib “Wipe-clean. Washes in sink in 10 seconds.”
Your First-Month Solids Checklist
- Start with iron-rich foods (fortified cereal, meat, lentils)
- One new food every 3–4 days
- Offer water in open cup or straw cup
- Always supervise
- Mess is normal
- No honey, salt, or added sugar under 12 months
You’ve got this.
One messy face, one proud bite, one giant milestone at a time. ❤️
